Pretending to be single can reduce 90% of the troubles in marriage.
──Marriage is "practicing with a husband"──

The ancients said that husband and wife should respect each other as guests, meaning:
"You two are not very familiar anyway, why not treat each other as guests?"
This is the true essence of marriage: let go of yourself!

((A creature playing dead cannot be awakened, but sometimes he really doesn't seem to be pretending))
Marriage is divided into two parts: "what you think" and "what it actually is," but the former is like a cloud spouse, always absent when needed.

When it comes to the reality of marriage, we want to vent, but often we hold back our feelings until we're internally injured. Fortunately, Ge Shisan uses an entire book to scold her husband, oh no, she speaks sharply and candidly, depicting the ultimate realistic side of marriage that has been tempered by trials.

Marriage is so difficult, yet also so interesting: you never know what sparks your cloud spouse will bring when they descend from the horizon. We can only comfort ourselves: no surprises are the best surprises.

=Book Features=

● The soulful three questions of marriage:

"I can clearly state why I married my current spouse": [Before Marriage] Because he is the one I was looking for; [After Marriage] Because I was blind at the time.
"Knowing the pressures your spouse is currently facing": [Before Marriage] No pressure; [After Marriage] I am his pressure, and he is my pressure.
"Feeling that your spouse understands you": [Before Marriage] He understands me better than he understands himself; [After Marriage] He doesn't even understand himself, let alone me.
● Being single within marriage—pretending to be single can reduce 90% of the troubles in marriage:
Mentally repeat "I am a single mother, I am a single mother," and then turn around to see your husband has washed fruits for everyone, and you will be grateful: "Hey! What a great man!" You might even be eager to show off to your son: "Look at this uncle, how enthusiastic!"

There is no hurdle in marriage that can't be stepped over in one go. If there is... just take two steps around it.

● Between husband and wife—on a higher level than brothers and comrades-in-arms, they have become "Daoist friends":
A group of middle-aged married men have a meal together, someone suggests "No one can go home unless they receive a call from their wife," and it turns out that only one person received a call by midnight, happily going home. The rest of the table, more than ten people, hang their heads and continue to endure, and in the end, no one's phone rings, and they can only disperse when they can't bear it anymore.

Middle-aged men are unclaimed, middle-aged women don't care. Middle-aged couples have an iron friendship, the relationship between men and women is not only pure but also not sticky.

● The side effects of dads at home: 1. Play games without your mom finding out; 2. There is nothing I can't mess up; 3. Educating children should be like me; 4. I am a professional at playing the bad cop; 5. Ninety-nine percent of the money spent on children is being cheated.

● Cloud affection: "Only when out of sight can we be affectionate, when seen, we are all eyesores": "Cloud affection" is the last stubbornness of couples when they jointly resist the pressure of life.

● Sexless marriage: This indicates a stable relationship, everyone has found a more pleasant way to stabilize. If one has to choose between sex life and WiFi, most people would basically choose the latter, otherwise, there's no way to check the parent group notifications!

● Model couples, all acting:
Chatting with women makes me full of energy, chatting with my husband only makes me angry. The "chemistry" between many couples is only "appearing chemistry" in front of outsiders. Most people pretend to be successful without realizing it, and they even believe in their own act.

Preface: Marriage is a Spiritual Practice with a Husband

I. Which Husband Isn't a Separation of Body and Soul, with a Soul as Fleeting as Clouds

II. Which Wife Isn't a Union of Body and Soul, Graceful in Both Motion and Stillness

III. A Marriage of Spiritual and Physical Sublimation, Desireless and Contentment