★ Values Upgrade Practical Guide: Being a good person always comes first!

- Worldview: [Adversity is Opportunity] — Unlock the mindset to refine wisdom from setbacks, turning every low point into a rebound springboard.
- Outlook on Life: [The Courage to Sit in the Front Row] — Teach you to control the direction of your life with confidence, shifting from passive endurance to active creation.
- Values: [Character is the Passport] — Be a person who shines with integrity, gratitude, and responsibility.

★ Activating Eight Energy Switches for Children

- Self-Confidence Explosion: Accept flaws → Face challenges → Three-step self-worth awakening to say goodbye to the "I don't deserve it" mentality.
- Courage Forging: Use "small actions" to break fears, from raising hands in class to public speaking, step by step breaking through growth boundaries!
- Self-Strength Method: Turn setbacks into fuel with the "anti-fragile" mechanism, becoming stronger with every blow.
- Optimism Activation: Identify negative thinking → Shift perspective → Three-step gratitude practice to create a "positive brain circuit."
- Responsibility Taking: Start with small responsibilities → Consequence rehearsal → Active commitment, making "reliability" your growth badge.
- Cooperation Empowerment: Ice-breaking skills → Complementary strengths → Win-win thinking, turning opponents into teammates with social alchemy.
- Gratitude Cycle: Daily gratitude → Kindness transmission → Abundant diary, letting good fortune chase you with the law of attraction.
- Social Gravity: Use a smile to unlock social codes, letting friendships grow naturally!

★ Winning with Good Values

- √ Making a mistake in a problem does not mean being a bad person.
- √ Not being famous does not mean having no way forward.
- √ Loving yourself first allows you to love others better.
- √ Stay kind, but also have your own edge.
- √ Learning is always for strengthening yourself.
- √ Living healthily and happily is a tribute to life.

★ Winning with Positive Energy

- √ Distinguish right from wrong, be confident and grateful.
- √ Manage emotions, stay kind.
- √ Overcome laziness, have clear goals.
- √ Have your own boundaries, think independently.
- √ Stay calm and resilient, be brave and responsible.

Children with vague values can be a headache for parents. In today's complex and changing society, how can children establish correct worldviews, outlooks on life, and values?

Have you ever heard these "soul-searching questions"?

- Environmental protection is a scam! You drive to work and use plastic bags, why can't I order takeout?
- Some children have no food, but we eat so well every day. Why can't the world be fair?
- Life is so hard, did you bring me into this world to suffer?
- Since life must go through hardships, what's the meaning of living?
- Classmates say I'm just pretending to be nice when I share snacks. Should I continue?
- You always want me to "succeed," but who sets the standard for success?
- If I end up picking up trash, do you think it was a waste raising me?
- If money can buy everything, why do people do bad things for money?
- ...

Every time you hear these, parents no longer need to be silent or preach hollowly, because all these questions can be answered in this book!

1. **Close to Children's Lives, Solving Growth Problems:** From "afraid to speak in public" to "how to refuse friends," the book covers children's daily confusions, solving problems with positive energy thinking.
2. **Fun Comics + Classic Stories, Easily Understand Big Truths:** Use lively comics to reproduce life scenes, paired with real stories of historical figures, letting children understand growth wisdom in laughter.
3. **Original "Energy Station" Section, Learn and Act:** Each chapter ends with a positive energy classroom manual, providing operable tasks, letting children turn knowledge into action, and develop lifelong beneficial habits.

This book provides a "spiritual growth guide" for children and parents with vivid cases and unique perspectives. There is no preaching, only guidance and inspiration, guiding children to think: What is confidence? How to correctly understand one's abilities? How to make efforts more valuable? Let children reflect in resonance and grow in action.

Li Shaocong, graduated from Beijing Normal University, family education expert, best-selling author. His scientific educational concepts and silent educational methods are popular with parents and teenagers. He has published works such as "Non-violent Communication Parenting Skills," "This is the Psychological Self-help Book Children Love to Read," "Anxiety Psychology," "Live as if Favored by Fate," "30 Growth Lessons to Teach Children Before 13," "Good Character Achieves a Girl's Life," "Good Habits Achieve a Boy's Life," "Good Children are Praised."

Part 1 Living and Eloquence — Every Word and Deed is Cultivation

- Empathize, get along without tiredness
- Listening is the best communication
- Unity makes each other stronger
- What to say behind others' backs
- Learn to refuse, don't try to please everyone

Part 2 Discipline and Self-Strength — The Stricter You Are with Yourself, the Better You Will Be in the Future

- Quit procrastination, stay proactive and happy
- Discipline makes you stand out, laziness makes you fall behind
- When faced with difficulties, it's time to progress
- Stay humble and take one step at a time
- Push yourself, then you'll know how excellent you are

Part 3 Confidence and Courage — Life is Mine, Fearlessly Moving Forward

- So what if you're not born rich? My life is in my hands, not fate's
- Show yourself boldly to get more opportunities
- Break through prejudice, be yourself
- Don't always envy others, you are also worthy of admiration
- You were born fearless, face the storm

Part 4 Optimism and Upward — If the Heart Faces the Sun, the Future is Promising

- Don't shrink back when encountering difficulties, let difficulties fear you
- Spread happiness with your smile, friends will love you
- Stop complaining! Become excellent and the world will be fair
- Learn to love yourself, live easily without internal friction
- Cry if you want! Tears are also badges of growth

Part 5 Struggle and Enterprise — Grow in Challenges, Harvest in Struggle

- Studying is hard, but persistence is cool
- The harder you work, the more progress, the easier it gets
- As long as you try, success and failure are equally wonderful
- Challenges bring transformation, you are stronger than you think
- It's better to surpass yourself than others

Part 6 Virtue and Cultivation — The Beauty of Character Shines on Its Own

- Kindness brings its own light
- Modesty makes progress, arrogance leads to regression
- Integrity is the foundation of life
- The more grateful you are, the luckier and more possessive you become
- More tolerance, longer friendships

Part 7 Resilience and Perseverance — With Strength in the Heart, Fear Not the Storm

- Break psychological barriers, constantly surpass yourself
- Challenge the impossible to meet at the top
- Setbacks teach us to be strong, not to knock us down
- Pressure is like a spring, the stronger you are, the weaker it is
- Failure is common, it's also a try

Part 8 Responsibility and Accountability — Action Interprets Responsibility, Passion Casts Accountability

- Mistakes guide you, not define you
- Be responsible for your choices, be more independent and free
- The family has you, doing household chores is responsibility
- Face problems to solve them
- Love the environment, do a small thing for the planet

**Preface**

The fleeting fragments in short videos, the colliding opinions on social platforms, and the intertwined virtual and real scenes generated by artificial intelligence leave us feeling as if we are in a foggy forest. The correct set of values—worldview, outlook on life, and values—are the "compass" that guides us out of the maze and helps us find our coordinates in life.
Worldview is about fitting the Earth into our curious eyes. The world is like a kaleidoscope; every time we turn it, we see different scenes—children riding camels to school in some places, elderly people brewing tea with rainwater in others, and scientists tracking climate codes on the ice fields... Seeing the world's diversity, witnessing how different civilizations contribute to the world's splendor, this is the mindset shaped by our worldview. Imagine we have a treasure map with a mysterious island drawn on it.
Outlook on life is about choosing how we navigate—hiding in the cabin fearing the storm or facing the waves in search of a rainbow? When we fall and feel disheartened by setbacks, our outlook on life tells us, "Falling is not the end; it's an opportunity to discover new signposts!"
Values are the detectors in our hearts for "good and bad." They are a special pair of glasses that help us see the truth and make the right judgments. When classmates mock us for wearing old clothes, our values remind us, "True nobility is not about wearing fashionable clothes but about the elegance and confidence revealed in every gesture and step." This is the power of values.
Worldview, outlook on life, and values are three magical seeds hidden in our hearts. Although small now, these seeds will grow with every thought and every choice we make, eventually becoming a unique tree that provides shade for our lives.