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6 key directions, 40 parent-child entanglements, 210 honest essential nutrients!

We need to recover from the “heart”, and love and trust are irreplaceable.

"What should I do? My child has started telling lies to deceive me!"
Doing homework and secretly copying the answers (I can't do my homework, but I'm afraid to talk) Always “forgetting to” bring home the note for parents to sign? (The teachers pointed out my mistakes on the note, and I was afraid of being scolded)
The child fails the test and doesn't tell the parents? (Parents only care about my grade…)
He did it and doesn't want to admit it? (Every time the child tells the truth, it doesn't end well)

When you find out that your child is not being honest, you will naturally be shocked, angry, and yell at him, but this will only force him to hide his secrets deeper…
In fact, all you have to do is observe, understand, and accept the “truth” behind the lies.
In the clinical experience of Yi-Chung Wang, from pre-school children to a growth point of teenagers, lying can come in all kinds of ways: afraid of being scolded, eager to love, don't like it, worried about being stopped...

Sometimes the child is unable to recognize the motive for lying on his own and needs parent he most trusts to help or even show him. At this time, please hold back your anger, take a deep breath and calm down, and reach out to the parent-child relationship that you cherish most. Your sincere smile will inspire your child to disarm and open up to you, and it will give you another chance to learn to love each other.

Book Features
◎ “What should I do? My child has started telling lies to deceive me!” When you find out that your child is not being honest, you will naturally be shocked, angry, and yell at him, but this will only force him to hide his secrets deeper. In fact, all you have to do is observe, understand, and accept the truth behind the lies.
◎ [Lying, is it a way for children to survive?] For those who don't like it, won't do it, don't dare to do it, are afraid of being scolded, don't want to be stopped, or out of wanting to be valued and longing to be loved, the child will find alternative ways of surviving to make himself feel better. And honesty, always in these small things, quietly qualitative change.
◎ [Psychologist, give you the key to the key solution!] Many cases encountered over the past ten years have triggered Yi-Chung Wang, a psychologist, to write this book to help parents and teachers to irrigate their children with rich “honesty” nutrients from six directions: 1. Inspiring Courage to Face Yourself; 2. Enhancing Problem Solving Skills; 3. The Wisdom of Observing Norms and Boundaries; 4. Having a Sincere and Open Relationship; 5. Bringing Trust and Acceptance Closer Together; 6. Establishing Standards for Teaching and Modeling by Example.

Recommendation Preface 004
Preface - The Delicate Dance Between Lying and Honesty 010
A Guide to 210 Tips to Enhance Your “Sincerity” 019

Honesty Part 1: Inspiring Courage to Face Yourself
Question 1 [Do Homework and Copy the Answers] Lying, A Child's Way of Survival? 028
Question 2 [Don't Bring the Notice Home] Because “I forgot”? 035
Question 3 [I Didn't Do It] Why Do Children Deny That They Have Done Something Wrong? 042
Question 4 [Don't Call Me a Model Student] Can't a Model Student Make Mistakes? 049
Question 5 [I'm the Most Powerful Person in the World] Is the Child Too Confident, or Love to Exaggerate? 056
Question 6 [Who Knows I Didn't Finish the Book] The Child Is Eager to Conceal? 063
Question 7 [Everyone Is Like This] Is There an Excuse for Speculation? 070
Question 8 [I Didn't Do Anything Wrong] The Child Made a Mistake But Try to Minimize It? 077

Honesty Part 2: Enhancing Problem Solving Skills
Question 9 [Secretly Changing the Notice] Is Your Child Unable to Write? Or Don't Want to Write? 086　　
Question 10 [Cheating on a Test] Are Grades More Important Than Honesty? 094
Question 11 [Being Bullied at School] Why Don't Kids Tell Their Parents? 102
Question 12 [I Hate That Person] Why Can't the Child Speak Honestly? 109
Question 13 [Nutritious Lunch Is Appetizing] Have You Found the Flaws in Your Child's Lies? 116
Question 14 [Just Do It. No One's Watching] Why Doesn't the Child Care? 123
Question 15 [Deliberately Delaying Homework] Is This a Safer Way to Express? 130

Honesty Part 3: The Wisdom of Observing Norms and Boundaries
Question 16 [He Did It All] Deliberately Planting Evidence on Someone Else? 138
Question 17 [I'm Just Having Fun] Is a Child's Joke Too Big? 145
Question 18 [It's Not Yours] Faced With the Temptation to Steal, How to Let Children Talk to Themselves? 152
Question 19 [Elementary School Students Have Facebook] What to Do the Child Lies About His or Her Age to Apply for Facebook? 159
Question 20 [The Child Smelled of Cigarettes] Adolescent Children Secretly Smoke Cigarettes? 166

Honesty Part 4: Having a Sincere and Open Relationship
Question 21 [I Didn't Say Anything Wrong] The Sincerity of Asperger's Child, the Cold Sweat of Parents? 174
Question 22 [Don't Ever Say Anything Wrong] Hyperactive Children Are Too Impulsive and Too Blunt? 182
Question 23 [Give an Opinion] Being Honest Makes It Too Hard to Accept? 189
Question 24 [It's Obviously You] Should Parents Intervene When Siblings Argue With Each Other? 197
Question 25 [Hold Back Unpleasant Information] Hiding Test Scores Is Also Cheating? 206 　
Question 26 [I Didn't Steal the Money] Is Silence a Form of Protest? 213
Question 27 [Don't Know and Don't See] What If No One in the Class Wants to Admit It? 220

Honesty Part 5: Bringing Trust and Acceptance Closer Together
Question 28 [Dismantling the Myth of Self-Blame] How Could My Child Lie? 228
Question 29 [Dismantling Unreasonable Expectations] How Should My Child Lie? 235
Question 30 [Just Sign It] Should I Trust My Child Completely? 241
Question 31 [Mommy, It's Not Me] Should I Be Happy That My Child Is Lying? 248
Question 32 [Who Is That Boy?] Why Won't the Child Answer Me? 255
Question 33 [It's Me Anyway] Children Steal Once, Will They Steal Again? 262

Honesty Part 6: Establishing Standards for Teaching and Modeling by Example
Question 34 [The Dilemma of Teaching by Example] Should I Cater to My Child's Needs and Lie? 270
Question 35 [When Roles Are Swapped] Mom and Dad, Do You Lie? 277
Question 36 [Saying I'm Not Home] Is It Okay for Adults to Lie? 284
Question 37 [It's All About You] Mom and Dad, Can You Stop Nagging and Listen to Me? 290
Question 38 [Little Puppet's Long Nose] Mom and Dad, Why Don't You Admit You Are Wrong? 297
Question 39 [This Gentleman, Please Have a Seat] There Are Some Things That We Afraid to Say? 304
Question 40 [Please Be Responsible For Your Signature] How Can I Sign If You Didn't Write It? 311