【Feature】 ★In order to teach teenagers, adults must have the courage to be "temporarily" hated by teenagers. ★"Parent-child world" flipped education columnist and consulting psychologist Lin Weixin, writes a parenting education book that accurately cuts into the psychological factors behind the adolescent behavior. ★22 articles, all have step by step specific guidance and practices close to young people.
Teenage Rampage/Criticizing on the Internet/Love Sarcastic Words/Only 3 Minutes of Heat/Chasing the Material Desires of the Adult World/Falling in Love/Poor Schoolwork... Behind all the annoying behaviors of adolescents is the desire to be affirmed, to know who they are, and to prove that they are loved and valuable, as the famous psychologist Erikson believes that the biggest task of adolescents is to develop "self-identity". However, because the hearts of teenagers are sensitive, confused and anxious, and they are also extremely concerned about the eyes of others, and then the behavior displayed outside is easy for adults to interpret into tough, provocative, and disruptive. Repairing the relationship is not to please, but to make corresponding and principled concessions when the teenager can’t change in one step, so that he knows that we have always cared about and accepted him.
Working in the field of child and youth counseling, Lin Weixin, a psychologist who has been engaged in psychological counseling for primary and secondary school students for more than 11 years, gets along with young people in the way of "I want to face your problems with you". His patience, listening skills and conversational style let the teenager down his guard and take adults’ love into their heart; this is a very suitable education book for all parents and teachers. Read More
【Author】 Lin Weixin Counseling psychologist, and columnist of "Parent-Child World" flipped education. Worked in the field of children and adolescents counseling, engaged in primary and secondary school students psychological counseling for more than 11 years. Graduated with a Master's Degree from the Counseling and Consulting Institute of National Changhua University of Education and passed the Advanced Placement Examination for Counseling Psychologists. Worked in the field of children and adolescents counseling, engaged in primary and secondary school student psychological counseling for more than 11 years, and is currently a flipped education columnist for "Parent-Child World". He has NGH International Hypnotist license and Taiwan Counseling and Consulting Association certification supervisor. He has specialized in school age children and adolescents counseling, drama healing programs, interpersonal and subconscious issues, and participated in a number of primary and secondary school students' class counseling and propaganda, teachers' professional guidance knowledge lectures, parents' parenting lectures and consultation. |